Sunday, December 12, 2010

Celebrating Holidays as a Single

Finding your self alone during the time of year when most of us are looking forward to celebrating with families, can be hard on a single person. There is just something about being the only person looking at your Christmas Tree and the only one placing presents under it, that gives us a deep feeling of being alone. When and if this ever happens to you, it may be time to be Santa to someone else. Nothing makes us happier than bringing a smile to the face of others, especially during the holidays.

Here's a few ideas of what to do when you find yourself alone during the holidays.

[1] Try volunteering at your local hospitals, food banks, or serving the food after it has been prepared.

[2] If no one invites you out, invite them. Surely you know of one other person who will be alone during this time. Invite as many as you can find or fit into your home. Plan a simple meal and have everyone bring a small gift to exchange.

[3] Have a couple of games or seasonal movies on hand, in case the conversation hits a snag. Ask everyone to tell a story about their childhood holiday celebrations.

[4] Gather friends and go Christmas Caroling. If you do not live in a neighborhood that allows this activity, call a local nursing home and ask if you can come by.

[5] Keep yourself busy. Do not give yourself time to dwell on being alone. And make sure you buy yourself at least three presents, after all no one deserves them more than you.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays, dear readers.
Faylee

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