Celebrating Holidays as a Single

Finding your self alone during the time of year when most of us are looking forward to celebrating with families, can be hard on a single person. There is just something about being the only person looking at your Christmas Tree and the only one placing presents under it, that gives us a deep feeling of being alone. When and if this ever happens to you, it may be time to be Santa to someone else. Nothing makes us happier than bringing a smile to the face of others, especially during the holidays.

Here's a few ideas of what to do when you find yourself alone during the holidays.

[1] Try volunteering at your local hospitals, food banks, or serving the food after it has been prepared.

[2] If no one invites you out, invite them. Surely you know of one other person who will be alone during this time. Invite as many as you can find or fit into your home. Plan a simple meal and have everyone bring a small gift to exchange.

[3] Have a couple of games or seasonal movies on hand, in case the conversation hits a snag. Ask everyone to tell a story about their childhood holiday celebrations.

[4] Gather friends and go Christmas Caroling. If you do not live in a neighborhood that allows this activity, call a local nursing home and ask if you can come by.

[5] Keep yourself busy. Do not give yourself time to dwell on being alone. And make sure you buy yourself at least three presents, after all no one deserves them more than you.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays, dear readers.
Faylee

Finding Love Beginning with 3 A's

Assess Your Needs...

We often go on a quest for something without really knowing what we are looking for. This can bring about confusion and misunderstandings. Know what you are looking for in your mate by knowing what it is you truly need to fulfil your desires. Know your deal breakers and your loving touches before approaching someone. Knowing one's self is just as important in a relationship as knowing the other person.

Ask Questions...

This is not the time to be timid or shy, even to yourself. None of us are mind readers and if he/she minds you asking questions, move on. Someone who is really interested in you, will not hesitate to answer anything you ask. You can not scare off the right person with questions. You may not get an answer you like or even understand at first hearing, but you still need to ask questions about things that concern you.

Always Listen...

After asking the question, be silent so you can hear the answer. Do not interrupt as they are giving you their answer. You should also be watching their body language as they are answering. When they have finished, repeat what you heard them say, so you both can be clear on the answer. This gives them the chance to clear up something if you have misunderstood them. It also brings about a better understanding method, as you learn what is important to the both of you.

An ability to communicate with each other is the glue that holds any relationship together.

Faylee