Another Monday and another day to explore the world according to Faylee. We all have our own worlds, where we live according to our rules and regulations. Sometimes those rules and regulations have a little trouble meshing with others and their worlds. In times like that we need to see if we can work with the other one or should we make another path.
A few questions to ask yourself might be:
[1] Is this something I can live with?
If it isn't are you strong enough to walk away from that person?
[2] Is this something that is going to change my life for the better?
If it isn't are you strong enough to walk away from that person?
[3] What can I do to make it better for the both of us?
If that answer is, walk away, are you strong enough to do it?
If you answered yes to those questions then you are stronger than 90% of the rest of us. It isn't hard to know when something is wrong with a relationship. It's hard to let go and walk away, even when we know it's best.
We humans are caring and giving by nature. It's unsettling for us to admit there are some things we can't fix, so we hang on and on and on. All the while knowing it's hurting both people in the relationship and sometimes even hurting the people around us also.
Walking away doesn't always mean defeat. It can also mean you have made a decision and you are following through with the actions that go with the decision. We do not have to feel badly about taking another path.
Life is like a good recipe for a cake. If you want the cake to be the best one you have made, you follow directions, putting in all the ingredients at the right time. If something is left out or you put to much of one in, you do not get a great cake.
The same can be said for our lives. If we let other people in who do not see our outlook on life. They can bring stress, turmoil and leave debris behind where ever they go. It's not making our life cake into the best for either of us. Often it's best to discard the batter and start all over again from scratch.
Faylee
Monday, May 11, 2009
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment